The Art of Listening

Last night after going to church with my girlfriend, my sister and my choirister friends, we went home for a dinner together with my girlfriend. Then we watched a korean movie together with our family. After a few moments, my klassmeyt called me from home to consult about about our activity in flash. My classmeyts consulted me because i am the first one who finished this activity in our class. I answered the phone outside the house because it is very noisy inside the house because of the huge sound produced by the movie (we actually set an extreme volume everytime we watched movie in our house). We got a long discussion with my classmeyt because it is very dificult to understand instructions from telephone to telephone without actually performing computer instructions to them.

In my cases, it’s also dificult to explane instructions because i am really not a computer wizard who uses many computer jargons. I think we spent time for about 30 minutes although it’s painfull to my ears i should help others as long as i can do it.

After a few moments, my girlfriend desided to go home already, and without wanting me to accompany her… I try to acompany here but after she pass the gate, she ran away fast. what i did is i ran with her with my slippers that is so heavy, because she did not gave time for me to prepare my slippers and fare to acompany here. so i even did not have a proper slipper and a piece of money to accompany. Though i try to talk to her, she refused to answer and it’s so shamefull for me to let others see that we are fighting. i don’t want other people to see such a scene, where boyfriend and girlfriend quarel each other.

Earlier this afternoon, i happened to go to her house to appologize (i don’t really know what should i apologize really) basta! i think i must apologize though i don’t think i have a sin to her. But then she refuse to answer me, and refuse to be near to me. She always shoo me off to their home….

Untill now, we are in quarel yet even after a few hours from now its already her birthday… It’s so funny for me to greet her "Happy Birthday…" although me myself am not happy and i know she felt the same way too because of this jealousy….