The Art of Listening

A beautiful story for this quiet evening…

One day, a girl rented a room, confused why the next room is noisy even though there is no one renting it…

She tried to sneak but all shee can see was blue color..

She asked the janitor about it. The janitor explained that there was once a girl who died in that same room a year ago.

Suddenly he added: "One thing you can notice on her is she has blue eyes".

Rest well…

Drug intervention has been a usual attempt by a skilled professional counselor or a group of friends, family or co-workers to confront a drug addict toward recovery. Others may see it painful and embarrassing. This may be also critical for drug addicts who deny they have a problem.

These are but some of the steps to Drug Intervention.

Step #1: You don’t Rescue the Addict

Friends and family members should not protect the addict from the consequences of his behavior by making excuses about his addiction or getting him out of trouble. He may be more motivated to stop using drugs if he himself will experience the consequences.

Step #3: Don’t be an Enabler

Family member should be careful enough not to reward the addict by paying his bills, bailing him out of the jail, letting him stay for free or ignoring his behavior.

Step #4: Find the Right Time

If there will be a chance, select a time to talk with the addict. The entire intervention party should be calm and they can speak privately with each other.

Step #5: Find Strength in Numbers

The support of each other to the addict should be in group and select one to become a spokesperson. The idea is that to make safe for him to come clean and seek help.

Step #6: Be Honest

Telling the addict that you are concerned about his drug addiction and want to support him when he gets help would be a great inspiration. Support your concern with examples of the ways in which his drug use has caused problems for you, including any recent incidents.

Step #6: State the Consequences

You must tell the addict that you will leave him to the consequences of his behavior and will no longer bail him out until he gets help. You are only protecting yourself from the harmful effects of his addiction. You’re not punishing the addict.

Step #7: Listen

If the addict asks questions regarding possible treatment, you must pay attention. These are signs that the addict is reaching for your help.

Step #8: Be Prepared

Be ready if the addict is ready to take the action. If the addict decides to go the rehab, you must work immediately to get him admitted. Prior to the intervention, you must pack him things, make travel arrangements and ensure that he has acceptance for the program.

Step #9: Don’t Give Up

Don’t give up if the addict refuses help. You must be supportive and don’t enable or allow his behavior. Just be ready when the addict reaches for your help.

Step #10: Find a Good Rehab Center

Find a center that effectively treats alcohol, drug and substance abuse beyond the initial cleansing of the system.

This decision to get involved in a drug rehab program is not an easy one to make.

With the dedication of the addict to get well and the help of drug rehabilitation programs and addiction treatment professionals, the recovery process can be realized and achieved.

After deciding to go to the rehab, this is followed by drug detoxification. The body’s reaction to the removal of a substance it has become dependent on is called withdrawal. Withdrawal causes craving for more of the substance being removed. This is the process for a period of time when the body is trying to overcome its addiction. Detox is the first step in overcoming a substance addiction such as drugs or alcohol. Detox is a pertinent step for the patient is to be successfully rehabilitated.

a sense of purpose is the best driving force to live..

because when you have a reason to live,

you will never have a reason to quit. 

Its a Lie to say youve let go of the past..

Nobody let go of the memories..

Each tear is an unforgetable memory..

Each smile is an undeniable mark..

Each hartbreak is an unerasable scar..

Because realy..

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there’s no such thing as letting go..

only moving on..

God Bless to your journey..  

The most tiring thing to do? Ans: To think.

The most expensive? Ans: To smile.

The hardest to regain? Ans: Trust.

The most painful? Ans: Loss.

The easiest escape? Ans: To pretend.

The most challenging? Ans: To move on.

The bravest thing to do? Ans: To love.

The most effective solution?

Answer: to pray…

God bless to everyone!